Swathi
I dont know you, I have not seen you. I felt sad, very sad. What is the kind of society we are breeding, what are the kind of parents these murderers have. It hurts me deep inside to know he knows you. Then how can he do this to you. 24th June 2016 you no more there for whose fault.
I don't know how did you aquint with him, what kind of time you spent with him? what kind of information you had about him? What kind of discussion you had with him? what he wanted from you? what you denied him?
I dont know. Whether you told someone about him? Whether you parents are aware about him? Whether your friends are aware of him? Whether you shared any of the discomforts with anybody? Whether any recent threats he has given to you? Whether you felt safe in his hand? My whether has no end.
Firstly I am a father to a girl. So there is a fear and question as to am I performing my role as a father. I hold the same question to mother. Lets understand that our baby is our baby. How can we forget the time I played with her, took her on my Shoulders, made her sleep on my chest, bathed her, Clothed her, bought her the best, gave into her requests and treat her the way she wanted.
I need to be there when she needs me. not as a father but as a friend, not as a caretaker, but as a person who cares for her. Not as a hapless bystander but as a responsible father. I think our role as a parent has to change. We cannot let our children be at the mercy of outside world which is becoming more and more cruel day by day. I have to understand her more, ask and also have patience to know. I am sure the response depends on the upbringing.
I keep reading this kind of news very often and most of the time its the girl who is a victim. I am a very happy father for being a girls dad. This peace gets snatched away when ever I read that a girl has been victim. I am also worried beyond doubt like many who would have thoughts like me.
My only request to the parents who have given birth to the Male baby to teach him respect, compassion. Teach him to behave. Understand that he not omnipotent, he not any great giver. If his behaviour is good then he will also take care of you in your old-age. There is no need to repent in the future about your upbringing and your misgivings.
Please observe your Male child, what he is doing, what company he is keeping, what kind time he is spending, whats happening in his life. Talk to him like a friend not a parent, pamper him not spoil him. If they way it goes many of you feel that he is god's gift to you in reality it's a god's curse to you.
My heart felt request to Every parent to spend time with their children. Teach them compassion, love, understanding, Caring. Pamper is good not to tamper them. You need to be the only one to whom they should confide all their life. Encourage transparency in your lives, encourage openness, make them feel wanted, make them feel cared. Lets at least have a better society with educated people like us not be victims of such brutal gruesome incidents.
All those who read this please review your role in your child's life. Better late then never ! time to correct our children. some Tips to have a better life 1. Every week Family lunch and Dinner at home. 2. Every month Family dinner for quality time. 3. Every year family holiday. If possible or else quality time with them will still do the magic.
RIP Swathi S
Shivaram S Vinjamuri
I dont know you, I have not seen you. I felt sad, very sad. What is the kind of society we are breeding, what are the kind of parents these murderers have. It hurts me deep inside to know he knows you. Then how can he do this to you. 24th June 2016 you no more there for whose fault.
I don't know how did you aquint with him, what kind of time you spent with him? what kind of information you had about him? What kind of discussion you had with him? what he wanted from you? what you denied him?
I dont know. Whether you told someone about him? Whether you parents are aware about him? Whether your friends are aware of him? Whether you shared any of the discomforts with anybody? Whether any recent threats he has given to you? Whether you felt safe in his hand? My whether has no end.
Firstly I am a father to a girl. So there is a fear and question as to am I performing my role as a father. I hold the same question to mother. Lets understand that our baby is our baby. How can we forget the time I played with her, took her on my Shoulders, made her sleep on my chest, bathed her, Clothed her, bought her the best, gave into her requests and treat her the way she wanted.
I need to be there when she needs me. not as a father but as a friend, not as a caretaker, but as a person who cares for her. Not as a hapless bystander but as a responsible father. I think our role as a parent has to change. We cannot let our children be at the mercy of outside world which is becoming more and more cruel day by day. I have to understand her more, ask and also have patience to know. I am sure the response depends on the upbringing.
I keep reading this kind of news very often and most of the time its the girl who is a victim. I am a very happy father for being a girls dad. This peace gets snatched away when ever I read that a girl has been victim. I am also worried beyond doubt like many who would have thoughts like me.
My only request to the parents who have given birth to the Male baby to teach him respect, compassion. Teach him to behave. Understand that he not omnipotent, he not any great giver. If his behaviour is good then he will also take care of you in your old-age. There is no need to repent in the future about your upbringing and your misgivings.
Please observe your Male child, what he is doing, what company he is keeping, what kind time he is spending, whats happening in his life. Talk to him like a friend not a parent, pamper him not spoil him. If they way it goes many of you feel that he is god's gift to you in reality it's a god's curse to you.
My heart felt request to Every parent to spend time with their children. Teach them compassion, love, understanding, Caring. Pamper is good not to tamper them. You need to be the only one to whom they should confide all their life. Encourage transparency in your lives, encourage openness, make them feel wanted, make them feel cared. Lets at least have a better society with educated people like us not be victims of such brutal gruesome incidents.
All those who read this please review your role in your child's life. Better late then never ! time to correct our children. some Tips to have a better life 1. Every week Family lunch and Dinner at home. 2. Every month Family dinner for quality time. 3. Every year family holiday. If possible or else quality time with them will still do the magic.
RIP Swathi S
Shivaram S Vinjamuri
Good One Shiva...Very sad incident...R I P
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